Saturday, September 17, 2011

Communication Skills: Language, Nonverbal, Listening

I decided to watch a television show called “10 Things I Hate About You”. The title should have given things away but I wanted to watch the show and not incorporate the title. The show is based around teenagers in a High School setting. At the beginning of the episode I gathered that the relationships were two sisters and their father living in a house. Based on their behavior I sensed plenty of sarcasm. The sisters were giving each other side eye looks, batting their eyes, rolling their eyes at each other and long sighs. Sarcasm continued at school, it was obvious there was a popular girl who was full of herself from the way she walked as if she were bouncing on a trampoline with every step she took, throwing her hair constantly and making everyone move out of her way as she pranced around the school.  It was hard watching the show without hearing what they were saying. However, when I turned the sound on I was exactly right; the show was based on sarcasm and rude remarks toward each other. The conversation I gathered in my head was actually very similar to the actual conversation. If I had of watched a show I know well, I would not have second guessed my thoughts about what I was observing. After this assignment I feel more confident about my opinion about people from their expressions. We all at times we judge people by their actions and the last thing I want to do is misjudge anyone. 

2 comments:

  1. You know what Kim. I realize that sometimes it good to watch some shows with the sound off because it not worth to hear the script.

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  2. Popular shows like this really seem to model behavior for teenagers and much younger viewers who want to behave like the actors. My 5-year-old granddaughter spent a weekend with my sister's children, where there is a big-screen playing in every room. She came home tossing her hair and rolling her eyes just like what you described. This is really a negative influence that parents need to take action for changing.

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